Non-Fiction, Review

Now You’re Speaking My Language by Gary Chapman

Now You're Speaking My Language by Gary ChapmanNow You’re Speaking My Language from multimillion selling author Gary Chapman (The Five Love Languages) encourages husbands and wives to offer steadfast loyalty, forgiveness, empathy, and commitment to resolving conflict, thus encouraging each other in spiritual growth.

With great clarity, Dr. Chapman shows how communication and intimacy are key points in developing a successful marriage by focusing on these principles: Lasting answers to marital growth are found in the Bible, Your relationship with God enhances your marriage relationship, Communication is the main way two become one in a marriage, and Biblical oneness involves sex, but also intellectual, spiritual,emotional, and social oneness.




My Thoughts

Gary Chapman explains the importance and intricacies of communication in healthy marriages. Now You’re Speaking My Language is full of simple, yet profound advice useful to couples at every level of marital bliss. Whether you are struggling in your marriage or feel completely satisfied, this title is completely worth the time and energy to invest in your relationship.

Much like Chapman’s “5 Love Languages,” the concepts discussed in this book articulated situations and emotions I could relate to and simple solutions for a more open and intimate marriage relationship. So many couples enter into marriage without learning the importance of purposeful communication. I’m looking forward to reading this title with my husband but even if he never read a word of it, I know that our relationship will benefit from the improvements I can make in the way I communicate with him.

I requested this book from the publisher through NetGalley in order to read it and offer an honest review.


About the Author

Gary ChapmanDr. Chapman speaks to thousands of couples nationwide through his weekend marriage conferences. He hosts a nationally syndicated radio program, A Love Language Minute, and a Saturday morning program, Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, both airing on more than 400 stations. Dr. Chapman and his wife have two grown children and currently live in Winston-Salem, North Carolina, where he serves as senior associate pastor at Calvary Baptist Church.

Dr. Chapman holds BA and MA degrees in anthropology from Wheaton College and Wake Forest University, respectively, MRE and PhD degrees from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, and has completed postgraduate work at the University of North Carolina and Duke University.

Connect with Dr. Chapman
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Do you know your love language and your spouse’s? Have you discovered your children’s love languages? If not, you can learn more about the 5 Love Languages on Dr. Chapman’s website.


3 thoughts on “Now You’re Speaking My Language by Gary Chapman”

  1. A good friend of mine has been reading it and sharing some insights with us friends, she finds it very practical and relatable. Can’t wait for it to arrive so I can read it for my marriage (hopefully with my husband)


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